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Be Loyal to Yourself

Sep 22, 2020
Black and white photo of Eva Marcille against a violet background.
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“Be loyal to yourself 🌻 Fake people will always give you a real reason to cut them off.”—Eva Marcille, actor, and top model

When the ish hits the fan, who got you? You. That’s who.

This is not a conversation about who is your friend or who has done something for you. It’s a conversation about centering yourself and putting your mask on first so that you can help yourself.

It’s okay to center yourself. It’s not okay to be a selfish, insufferable person, but it’s definitely okay to take care of your own needs. The only add I’d make here is that when you are actually loyal to yourself, no one gets cut off at all. The fake ones just… leave.

ZORA fam, how are you staying true to yourself today?— Adrienne Samuels Gibbs, features editor

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Adrienne Gibbs
Adrienne Gibbs

Written by Adrienne Gibbs

@adriennewrites on all socials Dir of Content @Medium. Award-winning writer. Featured by Beyoncé. Priors: EBONY, Netflix, Sun-Times, Miami Herald, Boston Globe

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